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Female Compulsive Masturbation

I’m pretty sure I have a problem with masturbation.  I masturbate between 5 and 9 times a day.  Probably closer to 8-9 times.  I can’t control how much I get turned on and the compulsion to masturbate every time to relieve the arousal.  I masturbate once in the morning when I get up every day, I never don’t do this.  I sometimes masturbate on my way to work in my car and about 2 or 3 times, on average, at work.  Being at work is my biggest problem, I’m getting to the point where I can’t really concentrate because I’m consumed by thoughts of when can I get away to do it, where can I do it.  I feel compelled to do this at the very least 2 times and have done it as many as 6 times in one day.  I am getting to the point where it is controlling my workday.  I then masturbate every day, no exceptions, in my car on the way home and I then usually masturbate twice in the evening and I have in the past woke up in the middle of the night more than once to relieve myself.  I can’t control this any longer and need help, I have no idea why I am so aroused and aside from that I feel I should still be able to control my compulsion to masturbate every time I am aroused like this but I can’t I have to do it and it is getting more frequent and the necessity is way higher.
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Hello, I've found your question due to my problem of compulsive masturbation.
I am 19, and I masturbate between 9-26 times a day, each time climaxing.
I've been doing this since the age of 9. I feel so creeped out about doing it, but once I feel that sensation there is nothing I can do to not masturbate. I have to do it to get it out of my system, there is times where I would climax, stop for about 20 seconds and then carry on.
Most boyfriends I have are soon to realise I need constant sex to keep me happy, but even then I need to use my hand else I wouldn't enjoy the sex. I haven't done anything about it but I think maybe seeing a doctor could help the problems. I also suffer from anxiety and worry which I feel could be another problem to this compulsive behaviour. It would be nice to hear your views, even though it has been so long since you have posted this!
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Do you smoke.Smoking can cause stimulation.
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I am agreeing with what iam1butterfly was alluding to... It is possible to get addicted to certain behaviors, especially if they make you feel good instantly (with masturbation, you feel good while you do it, and then when you orgasm it's the cherry on top!). But, it might be your way of subconsciously relieving stress or anxiety, coping with a bad day or an unsatisfying communication with someone, trying to escape feelings of restlessness, etc. In this respect, you are NOT abnormal. A lot of people have addictions to things...
If you don't think it has anything to do with trying to deal with your environment and your emotions, then my suggestion is obviously... try stopping. Try curbing it down.
Also, you might want to consider going to a doctor (your normal doc, or a gyn, or an endocrinologist) to see if they can take any blood tests to check on hormonal imbalances. (I think testosterone can boost sex drive..?)
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what you need to do is stop masturbating as often as you do. Try to cut down to only doing it when you're at home. Not in the car or at work. This is like any other addiction, except you don't have to stop all together.
After you have cut down to only doing it while you're at home, then try to cut down to only a few times a day. Keep yourself busy so in your downtime you're not constantly thinking of doing it. Good luck.
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I think this is definitely not normal, and I'm with butterfly I don't think that the nipple sensitivity has really caused this frequent urge to masturbate, but it may play a very small role. When did you have this breast reduction? Was it before or after this 'addiction'? This is interfering with your day, so it's an obvious problem, and an addiction. Are you in a relationship?    
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you said you do it in the car and at work. are you excited about doing it in those places
and do you want to be seen doing it
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