I am nineteen years old, and this past July I started having sex with my boyfriend who I've known for +7 years. We didn't have any problems except one. I had issues with my "natural lubrication" disappearing and drying up in the middle of fooling around during foreplay. I assumed this was because I was on an antidepressant called Celexa for my anxiety. With the help of my counselor, I weened myself off and have been free of it for a few months. When we had sex afterwards and I had a problem with not being lubricated enough, I kinda just gently forced it, even though it hurt a little. I grinned and beared it, it would be fine after a few seconds during sex. Then afterwards, I would be sore between my "lady areas" and my bottom lol, the perineum. I didn't think anything of it, I just figured the outside is getting lubricated and the inside is ready to go, it's just the entrance wasn't or something, and the soreness would go away. Lately, our time for foreplay and kissing has quickened, and I'm really ready to go sometimes but it still hurts going in until after a few times. No matter how turned on my body is or isn't, it still hurts and gets sore, and lately when I go to the bathroom to pee right after (I learned my lesson last month from a UTI) I wipe and there's light pink blood from my perineum and soreness, burns when I first pee, after, there is no burning. Just soreness. I've looked it up and this has happened to others, but lots of people suggest a Yeast infection, (I have no itchiness), or an STD (my boyfriend is clean and he was my first) or some other infection that thins the skin. Should I just suggest him and I spend more time beforehand with the foreplay and such? Are we just being too rough too soon? I've seen people mention they used other lubricants, but it still doesn't work. Should I just go to my doctor? I don't want to tear something and end up in the emergency room.