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My husband raped me
Hi every1 im really having a bad sex relationship.. I'm 21 and have been married 4 nearly 2yrs. I have nevvvver felt orgasm with my husband he rubs his penis on me 4 a while then orders me to get into wateva position he desires then he ejaculates tooo fast like within three min.s i feel terrible cos i have 2 masturbate while being married...
And now i have a baby girl which makes it worse 4 me 2 accept masturbating... After delivery i kinda got this phobia from sex incase i get pregnant again... so i kept away 4m him 4 like 45 days then he caught me off guard and started to rub against me so i tried getting away but he wudnt let me go and he inserted his penis into me and it was sooo painful after the stitches i tried telling him but he wouldnt listen till i cried after which he stopped and told me to check myself i went 2 the bathroom 2 find myself bleeding I came back 2 the room and told him thinking that i got away with it he consoled me and after i cooled down w/out a warning he pounced on me and pounded ne soo hard i was yelling and telling him to please stop but he held my arms and kept going so i said ok let me hold my stomach to control the pain... After several pushes he ejaculated and moved off me.... I felt soooo humiliated and used i cried sooo hard but cant feel better...
And now i have a baby girl which makes it worse 4 me 2 accept masturbating... After delivery i kinda got this phobia from sex incase i get pregnant again... so i kept away 4m him 4 like 45 days then he caught me off guard and started to rub against me so i tried getting away but he wudnt let me go and he inserted his penis into me and it was sooo painful after the stitches i tried telling him but he wouldnt listen till i cried after which he stopped and told me to check myself i went 2 the bathroom 2 find myself bleeding I came back 2 the room and told him thinking that i got away with it he consoled me and after i cooled down w/out a warning he pounced on me and pounded ne soo hard i was yelling and telling him to please stop but he held my arms and kept going so i said ok let me hold my stomach to control the pain... After several pushes he ejaculated and moved off me.... I felt soooo humiliated and used i cried sooo hard but cant feel better...
I agree with the other women. Rape is rape regardless if he is your husband. NO means NO. If you are scared there are hot lines that can help with this. You also need to go get yourself checked to make sure he did not hurt your insides, or give u an infection. I hope you do not have to go through this again. Have u tried talking to him?????
whether he's your husband or not no man has the right to do that to you. i agree with narla you need to go to a doctor and get checked to make sure he hasn't damaged anything and then report him.
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