Im not a virgin but he still cant penetrate...

[babygirltroubles]

My boyfriend and I have been together roughly 3 or 4 months and we would like to have sex. I am not a virgin but I have only had sex 2 times with a very expereinced person. He on the other hand is a virgin so we are both kinda new to this. We tried to have sex the other week and he couldnt seem to penetrate at all.. we tried multiple positions but it just didnt work. There wasnt much foreplay so I do not know if it was because I wasnt wet enough or what.. I also know that he wasnt fully hard at one point but at others Im pretty sure he was. We were both nervous and did not know what to do. Please help

[shire91]

Start with foreplay he can get you more than lubed up by giving your oral sex you could also try the 69 position so he can stay hard until your ready, also having him finger you starting with one finger and working up from there would help to loosen you up just take your time amd have fun with it dont rush it the first time well for him atleast but still your low low low numbered experience should be fun extremely passionate it would also help with store bought lube such as the water based Equate brand of personal lubricant jelly from walmart its cheap and works very well its all my fiance and i use it can dry out but he can easily parden my language but spit on it and that will actually make it last longer so you use less plus it will be atleast 2-3x more slick after that good luck and have fun

[Dalubaba]

The above advice is perfect.
'spit on it' is please reply often to members and visitors.

[Dalubaba]

You may use enough lubricant. Initially this type of situation is normal. In foreplay the male has to keep enough control to sustain his erection where as a female has to become more excited. After some more intimacy he will  adjust himself if you give more cooperation.In case he ejaculates , wait for half an hour before starting intercouse again. It takes half an hour for male to regain erection.If you fail to do intercourse, masterbate each other to enhance your intimacy.With intimacy and adjustment, you will be able to do intercourse.

[anjana929]

its ok.it is like more of mine one.it was his first ever sex so he might be nervous experiencing the foreplay to make you wet or how to make the things go smoothly.
soo as the time passes by everything will be alright and more pleasurable as you've thought.

[Gurl93]

I also think it's due to your nervousness

[Pekemom]

My pelvic floor therapist commented on initial internal examination that I had vaginismus. Since I am inexperienced I understand that the vaginal entrance, the introitis, is tight, due to stress or unfamiliarity with being touched or penetrated. Using stabilization of vaginal muscles and use of a vaginal dilator, I have been able to relax the muscles to allow penetration.