My girlfriends vagina hurts

[Soldier_side]

lately, when we do foreplay or have sex, we have to stop because she starts to hurt. she describes it as
" like a million little cuts "  and this was ushually on the outside. like on the entrance on the vagina.
but now she's getting some pain on the inside, some soreness. and i dont know what it is. some days she's fine, and other days she hurts too much.

yesterday in particular though, she started bleeding a little, and the blood is still kinda showing up. there was blood this morning as well. so it hasent stopped since it started yesterday.

Im trying to get her to go to the gynacologist ( SP? ) but she doesnt really want to go.

I've told her that we wont be doing anything sexual until she goes and gets it checked out. but she just wants to wait untill it goes away again like she did last time.

Does anyone have any idea what could be wrong?
the bleeding is not from her period, i already crossed that off the list of possibilities..
If you have any suggestions as to what could be wrong i could use it as reasons for her to go get checked out..

[Logan402]

I'm 18 and my girlfriend has had the same problem for well over a year... I'm the only guy she's been with and I obviously wouldn't know a whole lot she says it feels like a lot of knives and I've tryed lube and even grapeseed oil and she can only take it for about 2 min and then she's almost it tears and it's destroying our sex life can anyone help I don't know what to do because I'm only 18 should I take her to a gyno? Or what? And some times she gets cracks on the lips of her vagina up towards her clit... She hates intercourse and I don't want to make her suffer .... She also has white booger looking stuff in her vagina sometimes but she's always had that and I think it's because of her birth control because it goes away when she stops it.. Please help

[kitty_58]

I had sex with my boyfriend tonight, it wasn't slow or anything. But afterwards i noticed my vagina felt a bit sore. I usally have a little flap of skin between the vagina & near the bum. it's to like, separate them both i guess? i think so anyway. well, i think i might have spilt it? There doesn't seem to be that little bit of skin there anymore.  It's a bit sore, like stingy sore & alot of fluid seems to be there. unless it's trying to feel i dunno.
Can anyone help me? As i don't know what to do. or if there is something i can use to make it re-heal? or better?
Is this normal?

Thanks

[Crysi]

First of all let me say that I love that you used System lyrics/ song name as a screen name, and to answer you it could be that she is very dry and should try lube. Wait untill she is totally healed though because if she isn't and on of those areas becomes irritated the lube will cause it to hurt worse. If that doesn't work then for sure she should go to see a gyn.

[KittyKat1964]

Sounds to me like your girlfriend is EXTREMELY dry.  Try using a good lube, like ID Juicy Lube.  It works great and washes off easily with soap and water.  Comes in GREAT flavors too!!!  Good luck

[hansy]

hi did you get any further on your problem, i would be greatful for some advice as im having unbearable pain like you siad your girlfriend has. please help.

[jml1986]

Sounds like she may be tearing some during foreplay and penetration. This usually occurs when a woman has vaginal dryness. I would try using some sort of lubricant to see if this helps. If not she might want to see her doctor.

[ComputerGeek]

Here is the direct link to the gynecology forum (or "board")-

http://www.medhelp.org/forums/gynecology/wwwboard.html

[ComputerGeek]

I have no idea about this problem, BUT I would copy and paste everything you wrote over on the Gynecology Expert Forum also.

Here is the person who keeps a watch and comments on that forum -
__________________________________________

Keith T. Downing, M.D., M.P.A.
Associate in Ob/Gyn
Obstetrics and Gynecology
Harvard/Brigham and Women's Hospital/Partners
__________________________________________

I found that out by clicking on "Doctors" at the top of MedHealth and searching for a gynecology doctor and then observing what board he moderates.

And by the way - you are doing the right thing by refusing further sex until she gets this checked out.  If nothing else, it sounds like something is getting torn up a little and that could lead to an infection.