Please help me !!!

[broken2011]

I found my boyfriend looking at porn and talking to other women today. He has been doing it for several months now. I asked him if he was not happy with me during sex and he said he is but he wants me to show him more attention . What can i do to spark up our sex life? I was bisexual until him and he always wants me to compare him to the women i have had sex with.why does he do that to me it is every time we have sex and now i am find him on the porn and other women.... what do i do???/

[broken2011]

Thank u all very much and i have tried to watch porn with him and he did not even pay any attion to me at all i have even tried to do roll play i even striped and danced for him and every thing. he says he is sorry and he wont do it again but only time will tell. also i have no family up here in PA they are all in Florida. I wanted to leave and thank u all for the Advice..

[bailyboo]

I think the reason he asks about girls everytime u have sex is that he feels inadequate with himself, it also might be like everyone says only a girl knows what another girl wants.  A girl knows how to touch another girl to make her orgasm becuz usually she knows her own body and where her g-spot so she has an easier time finding urs. Maybe he's jealous due to that. It sounds like he just wants to know he's better then the girls you've been with. It could also be that it turns him on to hear about u with a girl, you know that it is every mans fantasy even though they wont admit it. I myself wouldn't be upset about the porn but the talking to other girls would hurt me and I'd be thinking hope that's all he's doing with these girls. As for spicing up ur sex life maybe roll play,try different positions, or watch porn together and act out the scenes.  I just hope he doesn't want to have a 3some because all that does is complicate relationships and usually it doesn't end well. Most couples end up breaking up. Good luck broken2011 hope all works out.

[AnnieBrooke]

Leave.  Why put up with sleazy behavior?  How he is acting is his fault, certainly not your fault.  So what if he wants you to show him more attention.  Everyone in the world would like lots more attention, and that doesn't mean they turn to porn and interact sexually with other people.  There are more respectful ways to ask for more attention!  Since he doesn't respect you, you are going to need to double up on your self-respect quotient, and take care of yourself because he is not.  Good luck.