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Sex Problem with Partner

Hello, iv recently started having sex and stuff but im finding it extremely hard to control myself and its ruining the moment because i *** stupidly quickly. Im extremely embarresed and my partner is understanding but when she touched me yesterday, it felt like my penis spazemed and i just came after 10 seconds. This is ridiculous?

Iv lasted alot longer in my previous sexual experiences and so this is a cause for concern with my new partner. I am still very inexperience in general though but lasting between 10-30 seconds everytime is really affecting my confidence.
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Put on a condom the moment you become erect.  It will dull the sensation a little (not enough to spoil the fun) and calm things down enough to last longer.  This will keep you from getting a huge load of anxiety that makes things progressively worse each time.
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would seriously appreciate some feedback?
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