I am 26yrs old my husband is 27 and I have four children. I have a lot of medical issues one: I got diagnosed with lupus,I have kidney diease and alot of other things that keep me under the weather. On top of having four chidren. My husband is wonderful he helps out so much but when he wants to have sex i almost never have the energy. Does any one have any suggestions on how i can improve my energy level. He really is a great guy and I just dont are marriage to be distroyed by my health issuses cause he is very patient wit me. I need help!!!!