VIRGIN HELP!

[Becky_94]

hey does it hurt to have sex if im a virgin?....and i dont know how to have sex? honestly

[elizabethrwashburn1991]

hey girl im 21 and a female...i know all too well that it depends on how tight you are and the size of his ****...if he is about 4 inches and about 1 inch thick...usually it wont hurt (that was the size of my first guy...my first time) and if he is bigger than that yes it will hurt...i would say if your really wanting to have sex be married for one save that purity! but if not...(i didnt) just make sure you are very wet...masterbate and *** before he has sex with you...here's to the mechanics....usually for the first time missonary (you lay on your back and he is on top of you) is the best because it hurts less being penitrated...he will thrust his **** in and out of you...what you should do while he is doing that is play with your nipples or your clit....or if your into it...scratch his back or kiss him...or just sit back and try to enjoy it...but here's the good part...the pain will end after the first time if he rips your hyman...if he does give it about 2-3 days to heal up and try it again...the more and more you try the easier and more pleasurable it will become...if you dont already try masterbating (rubbing your genitles, ****, fingering) that will help you know what arouses yourself and you can tell the guy so you will create a natural lube that will help moisten you ***** so that his **** will fit in nicely with less pain...i hope this helps sweety!

[hard_man27]

yes u'll feel little bit pain first time, but if ur vagina hv more and more wety, the pain will not severe, 2ndly try to use oil or oinmnet for first time, tell to ur partner to put oily penis in ur vagina first time

[NOHARD]

Hi Becky, Ok for some women it will hurt when your hyman breaks, and for some women, you wont even notice it, but make sure you enjoy it as this when you join the womens world, so ok your first time might be a bit touch and go, but just try and relax, as this will be the first of many? I hope for you.
You will either enjoy it or hate it.
Theres lots of books on sex and you can proberly find lots of sites on sex and the first time.
Good Luck

[babyakers]

When you ever first have sex there is a pice of skin that covers the part were the guy puts his **** at but  when he puts his **** in the hole for the first it rips the skin off of the hole and it will hurt like hell and you will bleed for a while because he riped the skin were he puts his **** and sex is a amazing thing when you have it with the one you love. The guy will know that to do if he has had sex before but if not. You lay on the bed with your legs open while he puts his **** in the hole were a tanpom goes and he goes in and out he can go slow fast , hard, don't so hard how every you like it. you will found out how you like it when have sex

[hoperenee20]

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