am i still a virgin?

[orange894]

can you lose your virginity  from getting your boyfriend thrusting his fingers in your vagina? i sound really stupid but i cant help but ask

[AnnieBrooke]

It all depends on what you mean.  A normal, active life can break a hymen.  Horseback riding was always mentioned when I was a girl as an activity that can break the hymenal tissue, or active climbing.  But if someone had broken her hymen horseback riding, I would certainly still think she was a virgin if she had never had sex.  When you get to the boyfriend's fingers, it is more of a gray area.  The real question then is, does your boyfriend fingering you count as "sex?"  I still think in general that when people talk about virgins, they are discussing the concept that the person has not had face-to-face penetrative sex with penis in vagina.  The reason virginity used to count so much a hundred years ago is because males were very territorial about wanting to put their penis in a place where no other penis had ever been, and because they wanted to be sure any children were theirs.  If this is why it matters to the o.p., then she is still a virgin.

[orange894]

Thanks for all your responds i appreciate it =)

[ankshri786]

ya dear a girl can losse virginity....by simply if his bf insert its fingers ...
virginty is simply a very thin hymen which can be break out by any stress.. girl can breakit herself..

[AnnieBrooke]

Most people consider the definition of a female virgin as someone who has never had a penis enter her vagina.  In that definition, fingers don't count.

It is true that fingers could break the hymen or stretch it, but they would not always.

[Jaz1989]

no if anything is put inside your vagina your r not considered a virgin. plus fingers are long enough to break your hymen