don't like direct clitoral stimulation

[XCleoX]

I feel like i am the only woman in the world who hates clitoral stimulation.

It feels very uncomfortable and by body involuntarily jolts away from the person - but then they think i like it, every guy i've ever slept with has went straight in for my clit and i always end up trying to distract them with something else because in the past i've been told i'm weird for not enjoying it.
It's not just from other people, it feels ... uncomfortably intense to touch, even when i'm completely unaroused.

But i can orgasm, through clitoral stimulation, but only by not touching my clit. I move the skin around it, in particular the base of my "fluffy triangle" which then moves my clit in circles without any direct contact.
Can anyone else do this or is it just me??

I've recently got a new boyfriend, we slept together once and he went straight for the usual finger rubbing clit job and seemed confused when i didn't orgasm.
Do i tell him how to do it or will i just seem weird??

Sorry if a lot of this has been too much information i just want to know i'm not abnormal or something, i do have quite a small clitoris also, but not drastically so

Thanks in advance to anyone who has any advice

Cleo x

[Deepak1234]

Your problem is quite normal. Cunnilingus (licking and sucking of vulva and clitoris) is to be done very delicately by step and step. You can see my recent post in my answer to somebody regarding "Sex Drive".It will help you and If then you have some querry then you can write and ask..

[Dalubaba]

Clitoris is very sensitive. Direct stimulation is too uncomfortable. In fact clitoris stimulation should be done during intercourse by leaning on the female while pumping.   The upper porting of penis rubs the clitoris and this gives natural pleasure. Massaging round about clitoris would be helpful as well.
There are four important points for female stimulation, Clitoris, G band, U band and  A point. You may learn about these zone from the website. Learn kegel exercises. It will give you some variety in orgasmic experiences.
If the penis head is kept near the Gband, vagina can grip the head and this gives different dimension to orgasam. Kegel exercises helps to strengthen pevic floor and kegeling can give a new sensation to each other.
You will resolve your initial problem by some further details from the website

[kimmiem]

i dnt think your abnormal everyone is different. just tell him how u like it be honest. maybe you just have a really sensitive clit. its like how some woman have really sensitive nipples & dont like them to be touched. i wudnt worry about it too much.