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I'm 18 and I tried having sex for the first time yesterday. I've never masturbated or even used a tampon. For some reason my boyfriend could not get inside of me. He said that I was really tight. Also my hymen did not break. I want the both of us to enjoy sex but I'm not sure what to do.
First make sure you use protection!!!! you have to use plenty of lubricant ( kY jelly )
Just try and relax and don't tense up and make sure your partner is gentle it will take a little time but remember to relax and use the KY. You can masturbate and not effect the hymen
Just try and relax and don't tense up and make sure your partner is gentle it will take a little time but remember to relax and use the KY. You can masturbate and not effect the hymen
Sometimes a female with a thick hymen must go to her doctor to have her hymen surgically opened.
Please tell your bf to be gentle. Tell him not go full length/ too deep at first. He has to take very slow.
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