is this normal?

[gwen2002]

I have told friends this and they all say never heard of it or it never happened to them. My boyfriend masturbates every morning before he leaves for work in the morning when he works day shift (5am). I get woke up by the water bed shaking and really I really hate it. He thinks I am sleeping but I am so pissed off at getting woke up like that and grossed out.. he is 42 I think it is wrong.He must be very sexual because it don't matter if we have sex the night b4 or not he still does it.   Does anyone have this happening to them?

[jml1986]

If you are really turned off by this, then maybe this is not the person you need to be in a relationship with. There is nothing that says you have to accept the man in your life doing this. If this is the only issue you have with him, then maybe you can suggest that he take it to he bathroom because you are trying to sleep.

[treazzure007]

i dont really mind my husband doing it or where he does it b/c im usually too tired or asleep when he resorts to it.  ask him to do it when he's alone.  ask him to go do it alone in the bathroom or on the couch if you're there.  ask him to put away his own dirty clothes

[gwen2002]

Well I no they do it all the time,what I am saying is should that not be done when you are alone.I think that should be private.I am so turned off by this now that I figure he can **** himself then. Im sick of picking the *** stained clothes up by his bed and washing them he can do it.I THINK IT IS SICK,oh I am so ticked off about it I want to scream!!!

[treazzure007]

i agree with jml1986

[jml1986]

I hate to tell you this, but most men do that all the time. It doesn't matter if it is morning, noon or night. I wouldn't let it upset you, it is a fact of nature for men.