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My husband doesn't seemed interested in sex anymore.  I told him i was sorry that i could only give him oral sex due to my surgery and that i felt bad that we couldn't have intercourse and he said it doesn't matter if we have sex or not.  before my surgery we hadn't had sex for almost 7 weeks....am confused and don't know what to think?
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So, to put things chronologically, he lost interest in you, 7 weeks later you have surgery and can't have sex anymore due to surgery. Is this only for a certain time, or is this permanent? What part of sex is made impossible?
Because when my girlfriend is having her period she usually still wants to have sex (we don't see each other often, so our sex drives are usually running red hot when we meet). What we do is; We have foreplay and I .. well I make love to her legs. She presses them together and I place my penis in between, at the top. This creates a very nice sensation for me, and a not unpleasant sensation for her. You might want to try it. Of course, it's not even remotely as good for "her" as it is for "him", but it is a lot more intimate than a ******* or any other type of foreplay. Is this an option for you?
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Your husbands age? is he on any medications? is he a diabetic ? we need some more information please
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