And I want to add something important. try this for a while, as it may really make a difference. do not use regular soap down there. there are many products you cam use but nothing comes to my mind right now except in the section where they also have the yeast infection meds, and pregnancy tests, there is a soup made by EVE that would work great. i myself cannot use soap there, it immediately causes problems. many women and also men are sensitive to soap and perfumes, but it's usually only with the genitals where it causes problems.
You have to remember that your partner also has to be treated for the yeast infection even if he has no symptoms. It could also be hormonal. What I would do is skip the oral for a while and when you have sex, apply that cream so it gets all over both of you and your men.
Oh my gosh, I thought I was the only one who had stuff like that happen!!!!!! I'm not sexually active though. But, everytime I recieve oral sex or any other types of fooling around, it can leave me feeling raw for several days! Now, it's beginning to look like like I might have the start of a yeast infection.