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plz tel me how to improve sex time

I am 27 year guy, going to get marry after few months with my girlfriend. we had sex first time before two months and we will do it every week. but now I am facing problem that I will get tensed at the starting of forplay like while kissing and all but at the time of intercourse my tension will get down and my penis become off. I dont know why this happening now. I am feel embarrass that I am unable to satisfy my partner if this is the case before marriage then what will happen after marriage by thinking this I will get scare. plz help me to come out of this case. and truly speeking this is happening while doing sex with this girl who is going to my wife. I had and having sex with other girls also but never happened this i have observed. .....plz give a solution
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Well, I'm fifty and one thing I've learned is to be free. Many people worry during sex. Does my body look good, does my penis look great, am I doing a good job ect.....You have to ditch that crap. Be free with yourself and who you are.
Also, enjoy that foreplay. Don't worry about if your are even going to have sex. Enjoy your partner. Don't rush anything. Kiss for a long time, neck, explore without thinking about the touchdown at the end....the more you enjoy each other that way, the better the end result will be. Stop stressing!!!!! Enjoy.
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it could be that your too excited, sex is fun and the anxiety of doing it can make you ejaculate quickly. im only 23, and theres time when that happens to me too we are all men it happens. try to be less excited, and there's other ways to please your girl/ fiancé spend more time pleasing her during foreplay, where she very climaxed and if you ejaculate before her find other ways to keep her going. try not to get on male enhancement pills they usually make you rely on them and perform worst when your not on them. over time you will master when you ejaculate
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Hi S, Premature ejeculations is your problem, this comes from lots of things, one thing in your brain your having sex before you get there, hence your problem.
Ok the is something you can try, its a simple exercise called edging, just google pegym, your find these under exercises, may take a while to get things working, your find out when things are ok.
Good Luck
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