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Need sex...

I cant control myself...

I have sudden erges to have sex, and im only 14!

I also feel left out, like everyone hates me. I keep thinking I will never have sex. So I masterbate arround 5 times a week.

IDK what to do. =(
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don't feel guilty about wanking a bit or even a lot. almost everyone does it, even adults. those urges for sex are normal and you better get used to em cause you'll be having them for a while. Sounds to me like you're just going through regular old puberty
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haha same here. For me, when I read a book or surf online and find something that's related, I tend to get pretty high and I don't quite know what to do and I can't find anyone to talk to because I feel that its so embarrassing to go high. I don't want my friends calling me a horny girl):

maybe you should gradually decrease the amount of time you use to maturbate.. perhaps you can slowly get rid of it since I believe, that once you've done it once, you feel like doing it again and again and maybe the next time, you'd want the real thing oO its up to you really. The only reason why I don't do it is cause of that guilt I have in me):
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oups sorry for the double post. xD
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No its not like im allways thinking about it, I only think about it when I get reminded.

For example, If theres a TV show on where there doing it or when im walking down the halls at school and someone is making out with someone.

Over all its not much of a problem, its just I dont think I should be master bating all the time.
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No its not like im allways thinking about it, I only think about it when I get reminded.

For example, If theres a TV show on where there doing it or when im walking down the halls at school and someone is making out with someone.

Over all its not much of a problem, its just I dont think I should be master bating all the time.
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Oh boy you kinda sound like me.! I posted something like that before, on ' I can't control myself.! ' or something.

There's this girl though, who told me that I can hold these feelings down by getting busy like reading or writing or even turning these feelings into poetry. Apparently, I'm not too good at it but it might be worth a try for you(: I guess the only thing thats different is that i haven't tried masturbating yet.. I try not to though >.<
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