Well, I'm les and it's weird telling people especially the homophobes but it gave me an awakening to who truly cared for me. And being lesbian or bi isn't bad. In my opinion, it shows that u can love someone regardless of gender.
It isn't a bad thing. If you can love women, aren't just sexually attracted to them, and can have a serious relationship with them, and not men, then you are probably a lesbian. But only you can know for sure.