period is late after a few times of unprotected sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[iKayCee]

okay so mmy boyfrined and i have been having unprotected sex and sometimes he is a second too slow to pull out.. and i was fertile on dec.21 we had sex dec 22, dec 23, dec 26 dec 27 dec 29 jan 1 jan 4. my period was due on january 5th and now it is jan 7th. my breasts are itchy and tender, im very tired lately, and a weird feeling in my lower abdomen, and ovary area.. i did a pregnancy test a few days before my period. (also   my boyfriend and i start without a condom but then we use one a few minutes into sex) so i dont know i just need someone to help me out and tell me could i be pregnant even though the HPT said Neg??

Please answer my question
thank you

[iKayCee]

my mother knows how old he is. i will be 18 in 3 months.
and i geuss im thinking about becoming pregnant but i dont know. it sounds so exciting until i think about what iw ould be missing out on and how it would effect my life.

[grendslori]

Are you trying to become pregnant? It sure sounds like you are, iKayCee. If your boyfriend is 24 as you say and you are not 18, that is statutory rape and he could go to jail.

[iKayCee]

is it possible to be late in ovulation??

[iKayCee]

i just got my blood taken today and i started to get a bit of blood in my mucus when i wiped. im getting pains in my stomach but ii geuss illk wait for the test results before i start freaking out. but i would just like to know cold it be implantation blleding cause my boyfriend and i had sex last night and the night before. (hes 24) but i geuss illwait till tomorrow but could  you also tell me what this might be

[sweetpea03]

Hope you bought a test and can use it in the morning. Also, your breast won't grow until farther along in pregnancy, so what you are experiencing now is not from pregnancy, but just from developing breasts(as you are still going through puberty and will continue to develop until you are around 21).  

[grendslori]

Your breasts would not be having these symptoms this early even if you are pregnant. At the moment your breast would not be producing milk which would make them grow so I really don't think you you have too much to worry about there. Could you be pregnant? Yes you could especially having that much sex. Could stress be causing everything to be going on? It certainly could. There is only ONE way to prevent getting pregnant and that is to stay away from engaging in sex to begin with. 'Pulling out' is NEVER an excuse for you to be having sex in the first place and any boy who tells you he'll pull out so there is no way you could get pregnant is either a lier or he has no clue about what he is doing in the first place and should not be participating in this adult activity; you are dealing with a boy, not a man. The two of you REALLY need to THINK about what you are doing and the resposibility involved with this type of behaviour. If you get pregnant, no matter what your boyfriend tells you at the moment (he isn't expecting you to become pregnant) if you become pregnant at your age, he will more than likely split. The two of you may end up hating each other and blaming each other for the mess you are now in; the thing is, if you get pregnant, he is going to be a part of your life (and perhaps your new husband's life as well) for the next 18 years! That's a very long time to deal with someone you may end up hating. It's probably longer than you have been alive at this point. You need to REALLY think about how this is going to affect your life; your parents will more than likely have to pay for everything and I can assure you, they are not going to happy about that. Picture yourself trying to tell them that you are pregnant; picture their reaction to being told they are going to become grandparents. If a teen is sexually active, they should be on some form of birth control; even that isn't foolproof, by best friend had three daughters while on different birth control products. STDs are rampent in teens, something like 2/3 of teens are carrying a STD. Teens think this isn't a big deal.....go to the doctor and get an antibiotic and you are good to go......not true. A STD can affect the health of that teens baby YEARS down the road! The posts that you have been writing show how scared you are about the possibility of being pregnant; neither you or your boyfriend are obviously ready to engage in this adult activity, why would you put yourself through all of this stress? For what? Your boyfriend probably tells you he loves you; those are his hormones speaking. I'm hitting 60 this year and I can tell you honestly that I have never met a man who didn't love sex but ALWAYS wanted his bride to be a virgin. I always thought of that as being pretty funy. Take your time with this activity; you have your whole life ahead of you, enjoy the age you are at as you do age appropriate things; get rid of this type of fear and stress in your life, you won't regret it. take care    

[iKayCee]

well i will be doing a pregnancy test in the morning... but while im here i just have to put somethiong out there my breasts are getting heavier and tender and bigger about i was about just a little small for a D cup now im DD what is going on

[sweetpea03]

Take another home pregnancy test, but take it in the morning. First morning urine is the most concentrated, so that should give you an accurate result.

[iKayCee]

okay so today is an 8th my period was due jan 5. and my breasts arfe swollen and very sore and itchy. i did a hpt yesterday night and it was negative. but i dont know it was a cheap one./ so coul,d someone please take some stress off my hands and tell me something

[iKayCee]

okay well. like we use condoms thought but its just after he gets hard so he can put the condom on soo. yeah
but it was dec 22 we had sex when i was fertile and now its jan 7th and i did a HPT about 5 days ago maybe. so that is still too early.. but does it sound like a possible pregnancy???

[sweetpea03]

You took the pregnancy test too soon, so you need to wait another few days and take another test. Any time you have unprotected sex, you run the risk of getting pregnant. It doesn't matter if he was inside of you for a second or an hour, you can still get pregnant. Use this as a learning lesson to be more careful next time you have sex.