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1759341 tn?1332573467

should i just do it already

Should I just kill myself already or should I wait another year of insults and assholes pleas help I'm only 13 I shouldn't be going though this **** pleas help
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I know how you feel. I know that's the go-to response but I really mean it. When I was 17, I very nearly almost killed myself because I had no friends and nobody liked me, including my family. But I didn't do it. I'm 19 now, and I've never loved being alive more than now. I'm not just saying that, either. Life does get better. You're in probably high school or junior high/middle school. I can tell you that high school isn't exactly the greatest place on earth, but remember it's only four years of your life and then you're on your own, you can do whatever you want, you're free. And I know it may sound mean right now, but sometimes you can change things by making self-improvements. That's what helped me because I was kind of a mean person when  was younger. I'm really shy now, but I'm nice. Don't get me wrong, I am by no means calling you mean or accusing you of anything. For all I know, you're a sweet, innocent teenager who does nothing to deserve the abuse you receive. And I'm sure you don't deserve most of it.
Please don't kill youself. If you kill yourself, it will only make things worse, believe it or not. Your parents/family will probably be devastated. One of them may even kill themselves because they may blame themselves for your doing it. And whoever is insulting you, if they have a brain or at least a heart, will very suddenly realize the torment they're putting you through and will probably hate themselves for it. They may commit suicide, unable to live with themselves knowing they killed you. And then because any of those people died, whoever cares about them in life will be devastated, and will want to die... Death can be very contagious.
I'm not sure if I've changed your mind at all, but believe me when I say that I really do know what you're going through because I've been there. There were times when I wished my heart would stop just to end the pain of living. Graduating from high school was my liberation. I had never been happier to be out of that prison and away from all the idiots I went to school with. And you know what? You are a very special person. You know why? Because you're YOU and no matter what, no one else will EVER be you. That's how unique you are; you're irreplacable. There's only one you so don't cheat the world out of the joy of having you here. And if you accept yourself and love yourself for who you are, others will too. I don't even know you at all but I still don't want you to kill yourself because I have a similar past, and I feel connected to you by that. Stay strong, and have faith. Someday, karma will work its way around to those who put you down. And don't you want to be around to see that day? (Sorry if that sounds evil. I meant it to be a little funny). :)
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973741 tn?1342342773
Killing yourself is never the answer.  It solves nothing but lets mean people win.  In reality, to take the step to kill oneself, depression would be there.  If you feel you are depressed, please please please talk to your mother.  That is what parents are for, to help their child.  And if you ever feel like you really may act on the idea of hurting yourself, then you need to cal a suicide prevention line.  Really, talk to someone about the feelings.

Okay, so people are jerks.  Is this everyone?  In life, I've found that I must search out positive people to have in my life.  A good friend that I care about and they care about me.  Do you have any good friends?  If you do not, let's talk about how to make one.  And then the outsiders that are jerks are just noise.  who cares?! They don't own you.  They don't really know you,  You are stronger than them.  

What do you like to do?  Hobbies and such?  Throw yourself into the positive things you enjoy.  This helps us get even stronger.  

But those that are needlessly cruel to you have their own problems and you just tune them out.  Best defense against bullies?  Confidence.  Walk tall, be proud.  S crew them.

If you are feeling depressed though or sad for an extended period of time, I guarentee your parents would love for you to talk to them about it.  Peace
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1548028 tn?1324612446
It would help to know a little more about what's going on.  I hope you don't want to kill yourself now, next year and any year.  There will always be not so nice people who love to offer insults.  You just need to do the opposite and make the world a better place.  I feel sorry for people that give insults to make themselves feel better.  What could be going on in their life to want to make every one elses so miserable?  No one should make you want to take your life.  You deserve the right to breathe the same air as them.  You can't let them rule your life.
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