my boyfriend was visiting and since we had aa long distance relationship, we finally decided to take our relationship to the next level, meaning we were going to do sexual things together.
i don't count the days of my menstrual cycle, but i know that my period had ended any day between monday and friday. we had sex on sunday. but let me clear up the details about what i mean by "sex". earlier that day he had ejacualted twice because i had given him a hand job, twice. he had urinated after both. later that day we decided to try to have sex, stupid us we didn't have a condom so we we're just going to be really careful and use the withdrawl method. he hadn't pushed his penis in any further than 1-3 inches, and he had pulled out way before the came. then i gave him a handjob to finish him off, and he wiped off the semen with a towel and i believe he urinated. we tried again a few hours later, and this is where things get kind of sketchy. he pushed in around 3 inches and we were going only for about a minute and he quickly pulled out and ejaculated on my lower stomach. he promised that none got inside my vagina, and i'm pretty sure none got around the outside, but it was pretty close to my vagina. he had wiped the semen off with a towel again, and i'm not quite sure if he urinated again after that. i'm pretty sure he did. that was at about 5-6a.m. and then he was leaving today, so we decided right before he left to do a quickie. he pulled out far before he came, and i again finished him off with a handjob. all of the sex happened on the same day, sunday. the first time was around 12-1 am. the second was around 5-6am. the third was around 1-2 pm. i'm not on birth control and we didn't use a condom at all. again my period ended around wedneday-friday and we had sex that sunday. i'm not sure what the chances are that i could get pregnant because i'm not sure when i'm supposed to ovulate and he said that since he came twice the same day prior to our sex, that his sperm count couldn't be enough to get me pregnant. also since he didn't even go in very far the chances were slim. he promised none got inside my vagina and i didn't have any semen on my fingers and then put them near or in my vagina. the only thing that worries me was the close call i mentioned, or maybe that he still had live sperm on his penis when he put in inside me. however i read sperm can only live outside for around 20 minutes, i have anxiety disorder so i'm totally freaking out. plus i am way to young to get pregnant, and now i regret not being safer. please someone tell me what are the chances i could get pregnant!! i have access to one pregnancy test, and i want to know if you reccomened i take it, and if you do, when would be the best time to? HELP!!!!