so the raiu test came back "irregular"? she now has an appointment in fargo, nd with an endo. i thought the raiu test would tell if it was graves or whatever else? otherwise why do the test, we already knew it wasn't right. seems like they should have just sent her to fargo in the first place. idk i guess, i told her to ask for test info to be mailed to her but she didnt do it. guess i'll just have to wait and see.
the doctor called today and she is going in for a raiu test on the 22nd, i tried to call and get her results but they wouldnt let me have them so hopefully they will send the results in the mail. i asked her to tell them that but idk if she will.
she seems fine around everyone but me so it doesnt seem like she is that miserable to me. she was just talking about me moving out and doesnt believe this could be why she is acting the way she is. i really hope it is why but am a little skeptical myself.
I agree with Barb...it's almost impossible to advise you with nothing concrete to go on. The very best thing you can do for your wife right now is to find out from her doctor what tests were done and the results and reference ranges. It sounds like she's feeling absolutely miserable...don't let her sit around "waiting for the doctor to call"...get on the phone and get this show on the road. Doctors tend to attend to the squeakiest wheel first.
Your wife has a condition that millions of people also suffer with. If this condition effects one area of her life, it's gonna effect all. I'm not a counselor but if someone tells me that they no longer want me in their life and is very persistent, they know what they are saying and doing.
You can only be there for your wife if she wants you to. Focus on your child and trying to get her help. That's all you can do at this point.
God Bless.
I don't mean to be a pain in your butt, but we really need to know what tests were done to determine that your wife is hyperthyroid and/or has Graves.
You can't "assume" RAI would be the course, unless that's what they said and you need to ask a lot more questions.... As far as I know, RAI would prevent breast feeding for more than a "few days"....
In order to help you (and your wife), we need to know the tests that were done to determine that she is hyperthyroid (should be a minimum of FT3, FT4 and TSH), along with sample results and reference ranges... Also have to wonder if they did antibody results to confirm Graves..
If you don't have copies of the lab results, your doctor is obligated to provide one upon request......
The first doctors app was on last wed and they I believe only tested and found that her thyroid was over active we haven't got anything in the mail yet or anything. I just did some research on overactive thyroid and came up with hyperthroidism and graves and was completely shocked that it could do anything like this and kinda got freaked out I guess. Its more the not knowing whats wrong for sure that's bothering me. She said the nurse that called her on fri said she had an over active thyroid and they would have to do thyroid regulating treatment that she couldn't breastfeed for a few days while doing. I assume RAI? Though it seems to me they should do a little more testing first. The actual doctor is suposed to call her this week she says. So hopefully I can get some info then.