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awkward "why cant I finish" question.
Hello, I am using my girlfriends account to ask this... but I am 21, have heart problems, and depression. I take an anti depressant and my normal heart medication. Neither one has side effects in relation to this... but I can't ejaculate. Ever. I have had sex with only 3 other girls. Once for ach. My girlfriend and I are my first long term relationship. She is very experience and I am not. I never really "finished" before. Ever. In my life. I never had foreplay before I was with her. Just 5 minute sessions with each girl I was with but never finished. Now, my girlfriend is very concerned because no matter how hard to works to please me, I try so hard to push the *** out and I just can't! I love her so much and we are waiting until we want to start a family to have sex. To make it special. She has been on birth control for a few years now but she isn't going off her shots until we are ready for children, just incase. She turns me on every time I see her being sexy for me, like its mind blowing that I can't finish! I can when I masturbate no problem.. but not when I am being pleasured? SHE DOES SO WELL but I won't finish? This makes no sense. Help.
Hi,
As above im surprised at your comments, Antidepressants can have a very direct effect on both sex drive and ability to orgasm, heart medications and depression can too. If you let it become a worry that wont help either.
Its always easier by yourself. I take If you are like me and then take your meds in to consideration it sounds fairly normal and nothing to worry about.
I'd consider yourself lucky you have a girlfriend who tries so hard, try not to make a big deal of it. and perhaps try helping her help you :)
As above im surprised at your comments, Antidepressants can have a very direct effect on both sex drive and ability to orgasm, heart medications and depression can too. If you let it become a worry that wont help either.
Its always easier by yourself. I take If you are like me and then take your meds in to consideration it sounds fairly normal and nothing to worry about.
I'd consider yourself lucky you have a girlfriend who tries so hard, try not to make a big deal of it. and perhaps try helping her help you :)
I'm surprised you say your antidepressant "doesn't have side effects in relation to this". I don't know which one you're on, but antidepressants cause inorgasmia, the inability to orgasm.
It's such a common problem with antidepressants that usually doctors tell you about it, and often people go off antidepressants because of it.
Google whatever med you're on and sexual dysfunction and see.
It's such a common problem with antidepressants that usually doctors tell you about it, and often people go off antidepressants because of it.
Google whatever med you're on and sexual dysfunction and see.
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