Thanks for writing in. I think you are suffering from urge incontinence. It can happen due to cystitis, stones in the bladder, BPH, bladder outlet obstruction, tumors etc.
I would suggest that you visit a urologist for examination and confirmation of the cause for urge incontinence.
I have the same thing urge incontinence which is caused by bph in my case causing me to bedwet plus daytime wetting.The best thing is to see a uro Dr. Good luck
What is wrong? Each morning at approximately 9:45, I have an urgent need to urinate. If I am seated (like in a car) it doesn't bother me, but the second I stand (get out of the car), the need to urinate is so urgent that many mornings I cannot make it to the bathroom.