So I'm 25 years old and I have never penetrated a women, despite being sexually involved in the past with several women.
My penis functions pretty normally when I'm masturbating alone, which I do 1-3 times a day happily. However, when I'm with women my penis remains flaccid and I get very wet from what seems to be pre-ejaculate pouring (quite a lot) out of my penis.
It's not that I get so excited with a women that I then ejaculate as I'm making out with her, it's different than that. I only find out that I've become a puddle of semen after I feel wetness in my underwear. This usually leads to me going home and masturbating it off, cumming in immense quantities, which I guess means I must have been wanting her.
I'm pretty sure I am attracted to women because that's all I ever masturbate about, and I do get excited thinking about it.
Just yesterday I went to meet a women and took a Pfizer VGR 100 (Viagra 100 mg) pill about an hour beforehand. It had no effect before, during or after the meeting, in which we were making out intensely.
I have also tried Cialis several years ago and it had the same non-effect.
Thanks very much for reading, I would love advice as to how to approach this problem.