I frequently experience symptoms of UTI, I would say probably at least once a month (I have experienced over 6 flare-ups of these symptoms in the past four months.) This usually occurs after sexual intercourse, within one or two days. I drink plenty of water and ALWAYS urinate immediately after sex, and typically I shower immediately after as well, just to be safe. However, these symptoms (burning, urgency, irritation, and general discomfort) keep returning. I have been to the doctor a few times for these symptoms, and everytime it is the same diagnosis and treatment. I'm beginning to worry about my health and I was wondering if I should see a urologist about this problem. The tricky part is that I live with my mother who is very traditional and is not aware of my sexual activity, so it's difficult to discuss this with her without her getting on my case about why this keeps happening. But I NEED relief! This is unbearable! Any suggestions?