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1957663 tn?1325174401

i do not feel sex.

i have been masturbating before i even got to have sex, and i have been doing it for such a long time, after i got into a relationship i had a very painful first time sex, but thought it would stop since i was a virgin. but it has now been six years and i do not feel anything when i have sex, few moths back i stopped masturbating and thought maybe it was the cause of me not to feel sex but the situation is still there, i mean i do get turned on, horny and everything but when it comes to doing it, it is like im numb, nothing felt but only disgust. help me.
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1244180 tn?1325899111
does he preform oral sex? did you feel numb when you masturbated?
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Are you feeling emotionally connected to your partner?  Does he give you plenty of foreplay?  Do you ask him to touch/suck/kiss/lick things you know feel good and help you along?  Do you stimulate your clit during intercourse?

Your feelings of disgust towards sexual intercourse, if it's been there from the beginning, could also be hindering things.
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