It is highly likely that you may have a DSD (disorder of sex develop, also called intersex) it's quite common in those cases to be born without "normal" parts. But honestly no one is "normal". Best way to test this is to have blood work done or go to a Obgyn to see if your reproductive system is "normal". It could also be hormonal, which is easily fixed with birth control or hormone replacement therapy.
Some women have innies and some have outies but if you really want to find this particular body part or location you can it just takes a made up mind. If you're truly concerned ask your OB. They will help you find it. The only stupid question is the one left unasked.
Ok if you didn’t have a clitoris you would not be able to urinate, so 1 question can you urinate? If you answer yes then you absolutely do have a clitoris.
Pls, I also dont enjoy sex at all and my boyfriend told me he couldn't find my clitoris ND I was embarrassed,i have never enjoyed sex for once because it's always painful.. Pls help me on what to do
This is great! Glad I'm not the only one....
Okay I don't want to sound more intruding than helpful, and I don't know much about where to find your clitoris etc. But maybe ur lack of libido/Sexualität arousal or pleasure has less to do with your physical anatomy? I understand the situation you are in and how uncomfortable it must be. Good luck with your research