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Masturbating in the shower only!
Hi All,
I am 40 years old woman and I love masturbating almost on daily basis. It gives me so much pleasure and relieves stress and tension from my body. But there is a problem i face while doing it. I am unable to stimulate my clitoris manually. The only way I can reach to orgasm is by lying under the shower jet and let the water stimulate my clitoris region and by the love and sex scenes I create in my mind with the men I know from my daily life. I dont feel like touching or penetrating myself. It takes about 45 minutes for me to reach the peak point and very tiring. But I do get beautiful orgasm and squirts after this. I just want to confirm if its normal the way I do it or is there anything wrong with me as I dont get orgasms by doing it with my hands.
Sincere and authentic replies would be appreciated.
I am 40 years old woman and I love masturbating almost on daily basis. It gives me so much pleasure and relieves stress and tension from my body. But there is a problem i face while doing it. I am unable to stimulate my clitoris manually. The only way I can reach to orgasm is by lying under the shower jet and let the water stimulate my clitoris region and by the love and sex scenes I create in my mind with the men I know from my daily life. I dont feel like touching or penetrating myself. It takes about 45 minutes for me to reach the peak point and very tiring. But I do get beautiful orgasm and squirts after this. I just want to confirm if its normal the way I do it or is there anything wrong with me as I dont get orgasms by doing it with my hands.
Sincere and authentic replies would be appreciated.
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You could try a "toy," it might not take 45 minutes. Even a massager sold at Walgreen's with an innocent-looking photo of someone using it to massage their neck or shoulder. There's a famous sold at women's bookstores called the "Pocket Rocket" made specifically for the purpose. It's probably very normal to be unable to get anywhere with hands alone.
get a toy or touch ur self while turning the shower head up 2 high and touch ur self? hope this helped!
I agree a toy might be wonderful for you, also you could try changing your shower head into one that is a masage or stream shower. hangs the same but has a long hose with the head attached. I love to use this and same as you almost daily, on the massage setting you have incredible sensation and the hose allows you the flexability to bring it right to you. You don't have to lay and position yourself.
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