Hemorrhoids

[little miss]

Hi! I wanted to make my name little missy, but it was already taken. My name is Melissa, but everyone calls me Missy. I have been having a problem and went to look it up, that's when i found this site. It seems really nice. I hope you all can come up with an answer that will help me and make me feel better. I don't want to go to the doctor, I am very shy. i have been having hemorrhoids really bad. They will bleed even when I'm not going to the bathroom (#2). Today I had blood all over my panties. My Mom told me to put an ice pack. I have and it doesn't help. My boyfriend of seven years and i have anal sex a lot. i know it doesn't help the hemorrhoids, but I really like it. Do any of you know of anything that will help? Thank you in advance.  Missy

[sk2006a]

yep, had one not too long ago.  thank goodness i didn't even know - they doctor found in on a colonoscopy.  i was just thankful that i had no symptoms!

[siren of the sea]

we could start suggesting it for bc on here? little miss we are just having fun. im sure most of us have had a hemi at some point. its not fun.

[sk2006a]

maybe that's why the anal has become so popular

[siren of the sea]

hi again. i read you have 5 kids!! no wonder you have a hemi! you should have no embaressment having gone through childbirth 5 times. lol.

[sparkeler]

At least put the anal on hold until the roids clear up.  I can't imagine it feeling very comfortable for you or being really attractive to him.  Ouch!!

[siren of the sea]

sweety i cant believe what you said. this is a health issue. your bf should be loving and understanding. please let him know this causes you pain. we are not qualified to tell you much more than options bases on what we know. which isnt the level of an md. please get to the dr. and yes if it were me id stop having anal sex. and if my bf didnt like it or got mad...well i think id tell him where he could stick that... of his. take care of yourself!! you only have one body in this life!