To me, a woman who removes the hair from her pubic area doesn't look any better than a woman who has all her hair there, and I've never met a man who felt one way was better than the other, either. But perhaps you are saying your man does feel that way and so you want to be attractive to him? If so, please don't forget that you're supposed to have "total pelvic rest" after giving birth, meaning, no sex until the doctor gives you the all clear.
This is a question I've never heard in all my time here. :>) So, when I had my kids, I had a well check appointment after at 6 weeks. That's when I got the all clear. I'd 'trim' up without shaving or using chemicals down there until then!