My boyfriend and I have been have sex. His penis has girth and is bent. I only lost my virginity this summer. Everytime we have sex we have to start really slow (more like start and stop) because I have a small tear at the entrance to my vagina (closest towards me bum). We only have sex once a week because of it. We use lube, but it doesn't make it any easier. It seems to heal after a few days, it no longer hurts when I touch it or anything. Does anybody have any advice? Is it because I'm only just starting to have sex? Do I need to wait longer till I have sex again (not that I want to do that)?