Your labia sounds absolutely normal. They ALL look very different. The labia minora can hang outside the labia majora, or inside of it. Both are normal. One side can be longer, that is very normal too.
Your clitoris is probably a normal size. You are looking at your clitoral hood. Having a bit clitoral hood does NOT mean your clitoris is big.
Nothing is wrong with your anatomy. Porn vulva are not like regular real-life vulva. We don't look like that.
Textbook pictures and diagrams don't look like 99% of women look like down there. I for one, don't even look 1% like the pictures show.
Do NOT use a textbook picture or diagram online to decide what is normal or not. Your anatomy is normal. There is nothing wrong.
No two labia look the same. Our labia can have different textures (smooth, or bumpy), different edges (smooth or jagged), different colors (purple, pink, brown, black, nude, etc.), different sizes (3/4-4 inches), and all around look different. One side of the labia minora may be far larger than the other side, this is normal. Most labia are not identical. Heck, some women only have a labia minora on one side.They are ALL beautiful and unique.
The answer is learning to love what you have and realizing it is not only normal but common. This is not a problem. It is normal. Look at tumblr's 'Large Labia Project' to see some of the variation that exists in labia - don't worry if you don't see a similar one, like I said, no two labia are the same. In survey's, men either like a long labia, or don't care.
Porn has RUINED what women think their labia should look like. Pornstars get their labia cut off and bleached. It is NOT an accurate depiction. If you look at porn from 10-15 years ago, they all had normal labia, ranging is size, color, and texture. In fact, the majority had labia that was 2+ inches.
I have the same problem .-.
Everyone is different, your is normal, no 2 are the same