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i need help am i pregnant?
i am 13 and had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. i have been in pain for almost 6 hours straight is that normal to have pain for this long? i also have a a ton of blood coming out. is that also normal? i had my period two days ago and its just like i am really sore down there. when his penis went into me it really hurt and i tried to push him off but he kept tring to push it into me so idk if he broke the cherry and i know we used a condom and idk if it broke and he didnt have it really on for the rest of the time. but please someone help me i am in a hell of a lot of pain.
yes it does feel achy where last night i could not walk at all. but so forth i appreciate for your help. i will see what happens in 2-3 weeks
Lower stomach pains, like cramps? Yes, but again at a minimum. Your lower pelvic region should feel achy.
also if i am having pain in my stomach is that also normal? thank you for your answer above i appreciate it. i will have to tell my mother and she will do.
P.s--I just remembered the title. To answer your question, there is no way to know if you are pregnant. When you have unprotected sex, then it is possible. You will have to wait a few weeks to take a pregnancy test.
Oh love.
Yes, it is normal after having sex for the first time to have pain and to bleed. Others may disagree with me but I don't think that you should be bleeding tons; it should have been a momentary thing during and after sex. If you continue to bleed like this, you are going to have to confide in an adult because your boyfriend may have torn you internally as well and you may need medical attention. For the time being, try to soak in a warm bath and watch the bleeding.
I'm not going to comment on your age because you are here for help, but in the future please remember that this is YOUR body and the only one you get. If you wanted your boyfriend to stop, he should have stopped--point, blank, period. It doesn't matter if you were already engaged in the act or not--he should have not kept pushing inside of you if it wasn't what you wanted. With that said, the condom shouldn't have disappeared while you all were having sex and if it happens again you would do well to promptly correct him. You made a huge decision to have sex (sorta, I guess) so please make the responsible choice to practice it safely.
Wishing you the best.
Yes, it is normal after having sex for the first time to have pain and to bleed. Others may disagree with me but I don't think that you should be bleeding tons; it should have been a momentary thing during and after sex. If you continue to bleed like this, you are going to have to confide in an adult because your boyfriend may have torn you internally as well and you may need medical attention. For the time being, try to soak in a warm bath and watch the bleeding.
I'm not going to comment on your age because you are here for help, but in the future please remember that this is YOUR body and the only one you get. If you wanted your boyfriend to stop, he should have stopped--point, blank, period. It doesn't matter if you were already engaged in the act or not--he should have not kept pushing inside of you if it wasn't what you wanted. With that said, the condom shouldn't have disappeared while you all were having sex and if it happens again you would do well to promptly correct him. You made a huge decision to have sex (sorta, I guess) so please make the responsible choice to practice it safely.
Wishing you the best.
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