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morning ladies,how do i help my bf????....i want him to check his sperm count but he doesn't want to go, I don't want to seem that i am pushing him to go, b/cuz the last time i mentioned it he was pissed (men & there egos). Anway, he claims the reason for us not conceiveing is that he needs booster drinks to build his sperms. I don't want to discourage him, b/cuz he mighten bother to go to the DR....So i'm leaving him to drink his stuff have him believing it could work....quiet honestly i know that's not going to help...but i want some advice on how to encourage him to go & get much better advice on what he needs......i need some marriage advice please..help !!! one island love....:)
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i think just leaving him alone & after awhile he'll go on his own when he realize it doesn't work...:)
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I have no clue what a "booster" drink is but if it truly affected the sperm count don't you think we would have all heard of it and men all over the world would be on it making their super-sperms???  A booster drink is not going to help a low sperm count and if he has a high count but there are defects it certainly will not help.
Why not concentrate on your future wedding and ttc after that??
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i understand everything what you're saying by the old fashioned way, which is to have a baby after marrage...which is alot of sence....not that we didn't say we wouldn't prefer it that way. Just i'm beginning to get the baby itch *he he* (smile) & it's just wierd that after so long with out contraceptive nothing at all....not even a M/C....i think we should at least know.
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who is dis: oh he's now  to try this drink thingy :(, b/cuz for some reason i think he said it worked for other men

Harley: i have after this months AF i'm more focused on wedding plans, but guess what??!!... he wants to continue trying we here don't call it booster drinks we call it (punch)....it's a milk drink with all sorts of vitamins & fruits to i don't know really energize their sperms.....i don't drink it or like it & most defenitly don't belive in it. i just want him to wake the hell up & smell the coffee what works for them doesn't work for all.
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who is dis: oh he's now  to try this drink thingy :(, b/cuz for some reason i think he said it worked for other men

Harley: i have after this months AF i'm more focused on wedding plans, but guess what??!!... he wants to continue trying we here don't call it booster drinks we call it (punch)....it's a milk drink with all sorts of vitamins & fruits to i don't know really energize their sperms.....i don't drink it or like it & most defenitly don't belive in it. i just want him to wake the hell up & smell the coffee what works for them doesn't work for all.
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ha ha..that was actually quite funny! i think sometimes you and who_dis (and i wonder why she changed her NN) sound one in the same. you seem to have similiar tone and advice. this is a good thing.

island...i wonder if your BF has a feeling this punch will NOT increase his sperm and that is why he is doing it. to pacify you and keep the ole spermies at bay. just a thought.  
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