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Need some help
Please don't think I am a troll or little kid, I really need kind advise on what to do.
I have a 4 1/2 week old and know that I am having some PPD but my life seems to be unraveling. My boyfriend and I live together and he has cheated on my before( at the begining of our relationship 7 years ago) I have suspected him of doing so other times but have no "real" proof and he denies it. Last night we tlked I mean really talk and he answered ALL questions that I had.. why and what happened,ect. Hearing these things hurt real bad but it was the first night that I actually let him touch me in weeks. The thing is what should I do, can people change In other friends relationships HE always says "Once a cheater always a cheater" but swears on the life of our baby that he has done nothing sense that one time, but I do not trust him and do acuse him all the time. This pushes his buttons and he has pushed and hit me before, he admitts on having anger problems and saya that he will get help, but we don't have money for conseling and we are aware that we need relationship conseling but same goes for that. My thing is that I don't know if I will be able to trust him and will he be able to get over his anger problems, the last thing that I want to happen is stay with him and him hit my son (we actually planned the pregnancy it was not a suprise). I know this is jibberish but I need some advise and hopefully some storied of things actualy working out in a realationship such as this.I did tell him it was over and took him to work,he called his Mom to pick him up and to say with her.
I have a 4 1/2 week old and know that I am having some PPD but my life seems to be unraveling. My boyfriend and I live together and he has cheated on my before( at the begining of our relationship 7 years ago) I have suspected him of doing so other times but have no "real" proof and he denies it. Last night we tlked I mean really talk and he answered ALL questions that I had.. why and what happened,ect. Hearing these things hurt real bad but it was the first night that I actually let him touch me in weeks. The thing is what should I do, can people change In other friends relationships HE always says "Once a cheater always a cheater" but swears on the life of our baby that he has done nothing sense that one time, but I do not trust him and do acuse him all the time. This pushes his buttons and he has pushed and hit me before, he admitts on having anger problems and saya that he will get help, but we don't have money for conseling and we are aware that we need relationship conseling but same goes for that. My thing is that I don't know if I will be able to trust him and will he be able to get over his anger problems, the last thing that I want to happen is stay with him and him hit my son (we actually planned the pregnancy it was not a suprise). I know this is jibberish but I need some advise and hopefully some storied of things actualy working out in a realationship such as this.I did tell him it was over and took him to work,he called his Mom to pick him up and to say with her.
I don't have anything really in-depth to say, except that you definitely have some issues that probably won't be able to be overcome without counseling. Do you have a church? A lot of times you can get counseling through your church for no cost. If they can't help you with the actual counseling, then I bet they could at least help you find some.
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