Preganancy after abortion

[goshig]

i got abortion on 19Jul 2005 now i want to be pregnant. is this time is best for preganancy or wait Please advise me which period best after abortion.

[littlemommy]

i once thought abortion was wrong until i was put in the position where i thought it was 4 the best. When i was 14, i had a miscarriage at 12 wks, when i was 17 i had a little girl who is now 2 yrs old and the light of my life, when i was 18, i had a miscarriage and 10 days ago, i had an abortion. I regret the decision and it hurts so much. my fiancee and i cry everyday. Things were difficult, the baby was not growing properly and my fiancee and i were havin hard times. I went through w/ the abortion after weeks of a constant battle in my head with whether i should keep the baby or not. i really did want the baby but went thru with the D&C on a spur of the moment, thinking it was best. i know it is rough, and will never judge anyone for the decisions they make. I too want a baby now and feel so horrible and would do anything 2 get that child back. I pray everyday i can forgive myself. it has only been 10 days since my abortion but my fiancee and i are planning on trying again ASAP. some think it is insane, and there can NEVER be anything that will replace that loss of an abortion or a miscarriage, but having another baby i think would help myself and my fiancee with this emptiness and sadness we feel. We want a family of our own, and it is our lives so we are going for it. and to you, if you are ready and it is what u truly want, then i say, GOOD LUCK and i hope u get whatever it is you desire. hang in there. there are people out there who understand and have been thru it as well.

[SHELLY83]

I was preg early this yr,..and if any of u have read other post of mine u will see i said i lost it,... i didn't i too had an obortion. it wasnt an easy decision at all, i was engaged (not happy) was told i was almost 3months at first, then told the baby had down-syndrome...after that i felt sick to think i was going to bring someone it to the world that would be looked down on by many, ...then i was told i was only nearly 2 months! i was confused and not only that my relationship wasn't good at all i had moved away from family to be with him and was told what to do and who to be seen with...amongst other things! i really hated being preg b'coz of all that happened but knew i wanted to b a mum! i went back to family for some time out and things just got worse,.. he didnt want to baby..i felt i had no choice even tho everyone was telling me it is my body and up to me! but after everything that happened i know it would of hurt me more if i didnt go thru with it and plus i dont think children should grow up without a father... it wasnt that long ago, i dont regret it and know i could NEVER do it again, i wasn't myself at all thru the whole thing

[shanty21]

There is a website that may help you www.afterabortion.com. There is non-judgemental help and advice there.

[so young and witnessed so much]

I got an Abortion when i was 13 yrs. old not because i wanted to but because i had no other choice. Now i have been trying to get pregnant for more than 2 years  but have not. Im scared i hope that is not because of the abortion that i got.Can anyone relate to this or does anyone know or have any idea what can it be??

[shanty21]

I am not an abortion advocate. Actually I am very much against it. Having said that I would like to give my 2 cents on this issue. Not all women who have an abortion are uncaring, horrible people who don't appreciate what God gave them. Some are actually so caring that they get pressured into doing something that they will regret and haunt them for the rest of their lives. A crisis pregnancy is a traumatic event for most women especially those who thought it would be a welcome event. Unfortunately, some women get coerced into believing that they are being selfish for actually wanting to keep their baby and usually by the people closest to them who they go to for what they believe will be good advice. Boyfriends, sister, best friends and yes even their own mother's if you could just imagine that. They will hear things like "your too young, you can't even take care of yourself", "you don't have the money and the baby will suffer," and the most common reason people push women into abortion is the famous "what will my friends, neighbors say" of course that is the one they will never admit. They also will never have to live with the guilt and pain. Although people think it is horrible to want to replace the aborted baby it's totally natural because they never really wanted to abort in the first place and now are trying to justify their decision. Abortion causes mental illness in some women for the rest of their lives. Please try to help women in crisis pregnancies before they get pushed into doing something horrible and help women who have has abortions to heal. Awareness of these issues is paramount in preventing abortions in the first place.

[ivayla]

its just not fair.u dont know me and my story so i still think u judje me.