Somebody to talk to :'(

[Babygurly22]

Hello, this isnt really a question but i just want to know that im not the only one out there who is/have felt this way. My fiance and i have been trying for 9 months to have a baby. I recetly went to the gynecologist who is aware of this but unfortunately they cannot start me on fertility drugs for another 4 months because my insurance will not cover it. This month i truely believed and in a way do still believe that i am pregnant. But i took a test earlier and it came back negative. I think it may have been too early to test so i am going to wait it out :( i dont feel like myself which is why i do truly believe i am pregnant. But the thing is i have gotten negative tests before and obviously it bugged me but i looked at it as ok well guess we just have to keep trying. But today when i got that negative i broke down and have not been able to stop crying. Unfortunately my fiance is working late tonight and i didnt dare call him because i ddnt want to upset him by me being upset. Ive been crying for hours and i think it is because at this point i am overwhelmed and to the point where every month it hurts 10 times more when im not pregnant. The one thing i truly want in life is to have a child with ny fiance. Hes an amazing man and he is always there for me and feels awful when i get upset about this. So anybody else out there that is/has experienced this. :'(

[Babygurly22]

I was only on the pill for 3 months. Ive been off for 9

[NOHARD]

Hi Baby forgot one last reason, just how long were you on the pill, if you was, and you other girls the same question, dont forget your body needs time to reregulate itself back to normal, and for some woman thsi can take some time, a year or longer, and if it was depo shot, O boy.
Read up about Depo shot side effects just google the last bit.
Good Luck

[NOHARD]

Hi Baby and others, getting pregnant takes a whole lot of chemistry which for some women is so easy that they just have rub agaist there husband and thats it pregnant, there are a lot of things that need to be in the right place at the right time.
So When some of you have been 5 or 6 years trying then its time to say we thing something is wrong, and what I've just said is not a joke.
Its things like thick mucus, low sperm count, hitting the right time of the month on the button, and not doing it evry day is not good, its our men they will not be ready, reduce it to just a couple of times a week, and relax enjoy the times you have together, the thing to do is try and forget about getting pregnant, I know that is what you want, put it to the back of your minds and focus on other things, you may find it works for all of you.
Good Luck

[Babygurly22]

Thank you so much for all your responses. I was afraid when i posted this that people would tell me to just deal with it or get over it but it makes me feel a lot better knowing that im not the only one who feels this way. I truly appreciate your answer! Thank you so much again and good luck to all of you as well <3 xoxo

[arlandonbloom]

I am in the same boat with you, my husband and I have been trying for 7 months now, and still no luck. It is so extremely hard to be around people who have no problem popping out babies, especially all at one time. It feels like all of my friends are having babies or getting pregnant and I am the only one who cannot. It's disappointing and it is so unfair how little girls or people not wanting kids at all can just go and get pregnant on the first try or on one night stands and here we are, the women who are in stable relationships and actually want kids, can't have them. :\ I wish luck to you, as I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, this is the only exception where I have my doubts in that saying. Once again, good luck and keep your head high. You aren't the only one dealing with this pain.
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[scaredandcurious559]

i understand and feel the same way! 100% i cant understand how some people can just take it for granted when there are people out there who try so hard....
maybe its bad timing? or we have something to do before we have a baby but whatever it is..... i wish it would just happen

[Babygurly22]

Thank u for commenting. Im sorry to hear that. Maybe u should go to the doc and just see. When i think about it sometimes i get really upset thinking about all these 14 n 15 n 16 year old that get pregnant and either get rid of the baby or dont even want it and then i sit here balling my eyes out because i havent gotten pregnant when ive been with my fiance almost 5 years, in a stable relationship n everything else and i cant have one. Its not fair

[scaredandcurious559]

hi! im sorry your upset.

im 28 ive had 2 long term boyfriend, in both ive never used protection.... im starting to think i cant have children..... im truly sorry but i know exactly how your feeling