Hello,
For such symptoms, nipple dermatitis, eczema and paget’s disease (although less likely) should be ruled out. Take some antihistaminic like Benadryl or Claritin and some mild steroid after prescription. If the symptoms persist then please get it examined from a dermatologist.
It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing.
Any help would be great this is driving me crazy! And I don't have a dr