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can anyone help me plz

Me and my bf of 3 years have never had sex we are both virgins he is my first bf and I am his first gf but a week ago we were messing about and things just got out of control. I had just finished my period a day b4. We didn't have full intercourse as I was scared and worried as we both agreed to have sex after we get married, we just ended up in bed kissin ect but I was scared he mite have *** few times near my vagina area so I took the morning after pill to be on the safe side and 5 days later I started my period again. Does this mean I am not pregnant? Do I Still need to worry? Also recentley I have been feeling alot of pain near my vagina area at first it was jus lil spots now it is very swollen and red I have cuts around the vagina lips. It sooo painful I can't walk or go to the loo without crying in pain. I went to the hospital yesterday and saw a doc she gave me flucloxacilline capsules to take 4 times a day but I am still in pain and the skin is not healing fast is there something I can do to treat these cuts and stop it from spreading. This is really affecting me in a bad way I haven't been to work for few days now and become really moody. Is this a common problem or is it just me :(
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your not pregnant. you didnt have full intercourse you had NO intercourse.

what your experiencing is not from plan b as for the cuts and stuff. you didnt really need it in the first place as of you did not have sex. dont be suprised if you bleed a lot or miss a period or feel horrible.

dont worry your not pregnant and your not going to get pregnant by not having sex so no worries
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poor you, that sounds very painful and stressfull for you.... the moodiness may be due to you being sore and also to the morning after pill.  The morning after pill can also change your cycle, so dont be too worried about having your period now.  The best thing to do would be to have a repeat pregnancy test in 2 weeks time then if it is negative then you can stop worrying about it.
Keep taking your antibiotics as prescribed, bathe the area gently with warm water (or alternatively sit in a warm bath with 1/2 cup salt added to it) and keep it clean and dry, try wearing skirts with no underwear so nothing rubs against the skin.  If it doesnt improve in the next couple of days go back to the doctor.  Make sure you wash your hands after touching the area so as not to spread infection.
PS keep your bf away from that area until all is healed :)
you could also try gently applying some (clean) vaseline petroleum jelly to the raw areas, to protect them from the urine when you pee - not something i'd normally recommend but it might ease the stingy pain -  in the shortterm
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