well i ve had sex before but the lad didnt pop my cherry. tonight my boyfriend fingered me really hard and it really hurt and i ve bled and i ve already had my period this month so it think hes popped my cherry and my fanny swollen up after it to :S it is now very painful and it hurts when i walk just wanted to know if it was normal for your cherry to pop and your fanny bein swallon after bein fingered? ohh and i ve been fingered before so this wont be the first time :/