my saggy vagina

[daisyshortie]

hello im 13 and i have a really saggy vagina i have been trying so many things to not let people see it like wear a big sweater to cover it ...:( i get called camel toe by my sister and it hurts because i cant lose i wish i didn't have a saggy vagina i just really wanna get rid of it will you guys help me ?

Please!!1

[Crazycool1961]

You’re probably referring to your labia, the outer lips. Don’t let it get you down. Every female is different. I’ve always believed mine was too saggy, long & not normal. I even thought bout having the surgery to trim some off. But I promise you, there will be a guy in your life...hopefully when you’re much older, that will think it’s amazing. A guy once told me that those were his fav. As for your sister, I dont think that’s cool of her doing that to you. I made fun of my sister’s  flat *** while growing up & she told me recently that it bothered her all her life. We’re in our 50s now & I hate that I caused her pain like that. Have you ask your sister to stop? Hopefully she’ll mature enough & know it’s not cool. Stay strong.

[Hailey_y]

have the same problem & I’m also 13! I started noticing it when I was 12, and now it’. ...I just think that you might just want to buy a more snug, thicker material underwear to help with making that area into a less noticeable “camel toe” shape. I think that you might not want to always wear leggings, and shift more to sweatpants, jeans, and skirts-if you wear leggings, wear a longer shirt to cover that area; it’s easy and can be trendy! Try and stay away from revealing bikinis and tight spandex shorts and leggings. I think its perfectly normal and will happen to all girls at one point or another. Don’t be ashamed, it’s perfectly normal! I hope this helps!

[Loreina_Help]

I am 13 to And i Have the same Thing Yes I Know it's Embarrassing To Talk About Stuff Like This But A lot of Girls Have This Problem So Don't Worry You'r Not Different .Take Care ! (: Byee

[Caryopteris]

I agree.  You are wearing the wrong clothes for your body type.  Everybody has some feature they want to disguise.  And later in life they may realize the thing they thought was ugly is one of their better features.  Being a teenager kind of warps your vision of things.  Find better underwear or wear skirts or skorts or jeans or looser-fitting pants and start looking into people's eyes and talk to them instead of focusing on your imagined flaws.  It's a better use of your time.  

[PyroG]

I'm not really sure what you mean.  Vaginas come in all sizes and shapes.  

The only think I could think of that would make a vagina "sag" is old age, which is obviously not the case here, or weight gain and loss resulting in stretched-out skin, such as what makes a belly look baggy after an obese person loses some of their weight.  

Perhaps you are slightly overweight and are wearing tight, stretchy pants which are snug around your crotch.  You could wear more relaxed pants or skirts, or see if losing some weight helps.  

I know this seems like a big issue to you; one thing I don't miss about being 13 years old is obsessing over things like this.  I know this won't make you feel better, but at least in the meantime there are some options you have to conceal it from public view.  

[AnnieBrooke]

I assume you mean your vaginal lips no longer look like a little girl's?  Please don't worry, only porn stars who have had surgery have little-girl looking vulvas without vaginal lips that stick out.  And unfortunately, the reason there is a market for that painful surgery is because some men get sexually excited by the idea of having sex with a little girl.  Sorry to have said it but that is pretty much the story.  Thankfully there are not that many creeps out there.

You're growing up into a world where women get shamed for their bodies for no reason and resort to starving themselves or having surgery out of desperation.  But our bodies are normal, and the way they grow is normal.  Please don't think you are abnormal.  Also, I guess I may as well point out, most men think the idea of a juicy, sticky-out pair of vaginal lips is the greatest thing in the world.  (As my husband once said, if a man is looking at a pair of vaginal lips, he is not making judgements, he is thinking he is lucky.)

A normal adult woman has her vulva that she has always had since being born, and it has hair on it, and sticky-out vaginal lips that are sort of like curly lettuce sticking out of a hamburger bun, if the lettuce was fat.  It is not your vagina that is "saggy," your vagina is the tube between your vulva and your uterus and is all inside your body.  Anyway, your vagina is probably absolutely fine.

If you are having to wear a big sweater because your vaginal lips are showing through your clothes, you might be wearing too revealing pants.  Tights and leggings will show all of your business to the world, front and back, and that is not very circumspect or frankly all that safe (there are plenty of men who will look, and they are not being charitable.  They are seeing sexual parts and looking for that reason.)  If every single pair of pants you have shows your camel toe, you might be outgrowing them or you might want to consider wearing a less clingy kind of pants.  If you don't think it is the clothes, or can't afford to change them out, you could wear a light pad in your underwear.  

Also, please google Betty Dodson, and look at her "genital gallery," to see some of the normal variation in grown women's vaginal lip shapes.  She is an educator and her mission has been to let women know that their girly parts look fine.  :)  

Take care.

ps -- Your sister is a snot.