first time sex

[lalli111]

hi
i want to have sex with my bf. to both of us it is first time. is there is chance of bleeding? he is saying if i do it slowly it will not bleed. i didnt understand it. is intercourse is possible with out bleeding. i may or may not marry him, if i married to another guy will he know i m not virgin? is there any problem with him in future
my bf is forcing me to have sex. i m worrying. will u please suggest me.

[lalli111]

i m 21 years old. i too interested but getting tense. if i said no he dnt do sex with me.i love him so much. because of family problems we cant marry each other. forcing means he want to do first sex with me because he mad about me. i dnt want to hurt him.
he consulted doctor that doc told while cycling ( not  periods)   also hymn will tear for some gals, n the next who will hav sex with me aftr marriage will not identify because if u dnt participate in sex for 6 months continuously it will become normal again. is it right?

[Funnygirl216]

You can have sex with your boyfriend but make sure you dont feel your rushing things when you actually are have sex... you need to wear protection and make sure you make him go into you nice and slowly!
this will make you sure your vagina opens up for him instad of forcing his **** into youand may tear the outside....
if you get married to a different guy it wont matter because i bet he has probly had sex with so of is old girlfriends..

but make sure your bf is the first person you want to make love with and make sure he isnt doing just to look cool infront of his friends.
Take my advice have sex but be careful... tell me how it goes

[BrunettBarbie18]

first of all if his forcing into sex tht means all he wants from u is sex and u should have sex when u want to not when someone tells you. second of course it will bleed becsuse u break ur hymen and ur next bf or whoever u marry will no that ur not a virgin because he wont break anything, how old are u?

[ANewLife4Me]

Hello,

First I would suggest dumping your boyfriend.  He should NOT be forcing you to have sex.  If you are not ready, don't do it.  A boyfriend should not pressure you into such a big thing.  He should wait and be understanding if he loves you.  I do not think you should give yourself to somebody who is forcing you and telling you lies.  Neither of you know if you are going to bleed, whether he goes slow or not.  Many women bleed, many do not their first time.  There is just noway to tell if you are going to bleed or not your first time.  Also, your next partner is not going to know whether you are a virgin or not unless you tell him.  Please think long and hard about this decision before you do something you are not prepared to do.  If you do, please use some sort of protection - against both STD's and pregnancy.

Good luck to you.