there is a reason that when a virgin female has sex for the first time its called getting your cherry popped! there is a protective sac so to speak around the opening of your cervix and when the male reproductive organ hits that and breaks it thats whats considered the pop! and yes you can and most will bleed!... it is completely normal and if you werent a virgin that wouldnt have happened unless you were on your period or he ripped you while intercourse! i hope all is well and hope this helped!
Are you saying that the first time you had sex blood has to come out? Cause it doesn't. I've never experienced bleeding anytime I have sex, first time or not. There's NOTHING that says a female has to bleed. Some might, and it's normal as well. Not to be rude, but have him read up and understand the female body so he has a better idea of how it works. It's wrong for him to assume and accuse without having proper knowledge first.