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is't normal?
i have been married from 3 month ago and i have some wondering question
my wife said that she have'nt make sexbefore and he's virgin but in our first time ou intercourse she's does'nt bleed at all and i have'nt any kind of dificulity in penetration
i always heard that women bleed even for some bit of blood when they lose that virginity and also i heard that the penetration will be kinda hard for the first time and the vagina will be totaly narrow
so is'nt normal what's happenend ?
and thank in advance
This discussion is related to I didnt bleed when I lost my virginity.
my wife said that she have'nt make sexbefore and he's virgin but in our first time ou intercourse she's does'nt bleed at all and i have'nt any kind of dificulity in penetration
i always heard that women bleed even for some bit of blood when they lose that virginity and also i heard that the penetration will be kinda hard for the first time and the vagina will be totaly narrow
so is'nt normal what's happenend ?
and thank in advance
This discussion is related to I didnt bleed when I lost my virginity.
If she didn't bleed and sex went well, maybe you were a good lover. Sex doesn't usually hurt with a good patient lover.
My first time didn't hurt, and I attribute that to my partner being so patient.
My first time didn't hurt, and I attribute that to my partner being so patient.
I understand your concern... if she didnt bleed that you feel that she was with someone else...and why would she lie about it... because being married you are suppose to be truthful with each other... if it bothers you discuss it with her, but let her know that you just want to know w/ no arguements... bring it to a discussion instead of an arguement.
There could be many reasons why, but I know it will bother you until you know, so just ask.
Autum
There could be many reasons why, but I know it will bother you until you know, so just ask.
Autum
Why does this matter?
But if for some retarded cultural reason, or if this is an arranged marriage.
A) Not all hymens are created equal some are "barely" there, others are impenetrable. I take it you are upset because you feel you didn't make her bleed enough or that if she has been with someone else you don't measure up?
B) If she did any athletics at all that could have ruptured it
C) Have you read the kama Sutra? Maybe using the animal comparisons she is a mare in size and you are just a rabbit.
So these are the choices.
1) she is largely equipped.
2) You are under equipped.
3) She ruptured her hymen.
4) Someone else ruptured her hymen.
5) You can try to develop a future based on love and trust, don't ask stupid questions about her past that will either anger you, or you won't believe anyway and only worru about the part of your lives that paralell each others.
But if for some retarded cultural reason, or if this is an arranged marriage.
A) Not all hymens are created equal some are "barely" there, others are impenetrable. I take it you are upset because you feel you didn't make her bleed enough or that if she has been with someone else you don't measure up?
B) If she did any athletics at all that could have ruptured it
C) Have you read the kama Sutra? Maybe using the animal comparisons she is a mare in size and you are just a rabbit.
So these are the choices.
1) she is largely equipped.
2) You are under equipped.
3) She ruptured her hymen.
4) Someone else ruptured her hymen.
5) You can try to develop a future based on love and trust, don't ask stupid questions about her past that will either anger you, or you won't believe anyway and only worru about the part of your lives that paralell each others.
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