Father- Daughter incest? Or is it just my imagiation?

[sweetiegirl1985]

I have been with my fiance for about 1 year. He is a bit older than me and has a daughter that just turned 14 years old not too long ago. Her mother has not been in the picture since she was 4, so he really had to pick up the slack for her not being there. He learned how to do hair, nail, shopping, and is very opened about talking about "girl things". Anyhow, we just watched a scary movie  and ever since then she thinks that there are demonds in our house. The movie scared her so much that the night after we watched the movie she didn't sleep all night. The reason I am writing this is because now my fiance is sleeping in bed with her because she is scared and this moring he had glitter all over his chest. I asked him what that was from and he told me from her shirt. I understand that it could just be that, but why was he holding her like that? I tought for some reason that was weird. They have a close relationship, but I think this is too much.. Can someone help me on this topic?

[rahim28]

Put your husband on first priority to resolving the case, family's calmness comes first

[Cnh0710]

My 4 year old came to me and has told me 2 times that daddy toched my private with his finger. I called dcf but she does sometimes change her story. Now they will interview my husband. Was I wrong to report this so quickly. I believe her.

[rahim28]

Dear 98
You loved him when you did not know about his sick relationship with his own 2 daughters but now you know.
This is real thing but sweetiegirl,s problem could be just kind of misunderstanding.
Margy is right you need to breath a clean air to be able to clarify your mind

[margypops]

You were right in getting away from that kind of life , so now its time to let it go , meet new people and move on ,it doesn't make sense that courts would not at least see children cannot be brought up in this manner . Could it be your country is too tolerant?

[hurt98]

I have  the same problem, I was married to a man with a 2 daughter, and believe it or not..this 2 daughter have a sex relationship with there father..and the x-wife she knows all this matters, but she just ignore it..the reason she ignored , because she was using her 2 daughter to make my husband feel guilty, and get something what they want everytime they asking what they needs..house, cars, money, travelling, and my husband cannot say no to them..because they always putting there fingers on the face of my husband..and the reason why he cannot stop the children because he loves them so much..and he still wanted to continue to sleep with them, I talk with him reagarding all this..but he said to me..Im the only was complaining for what they are doing..and his children and ex-wife, never complain for what they doing to each other..so he told me, even we go to the court, no one will believe me, because his children and ex-wife was on his side..even the social community was send them a letter, to explain about the abuse that he just did to his children..he ignore the letter and never showed up..and until now he and his 2daughter was continue this kind of life and relationship that they been doing..so the only thing to solve my problem.. is to get out on his life..rather than to be crazy keep seeing them, dringking together till get drunk  and be naked and sleep 3 of them in same bed..hugging and moam.while i'm at the other room..so I get out and clean my mind..and not to go back to them again and forget them and never see them and cut all the communication and forget the my husband that I know I love him..but..what is the use of love to share to this kind of family..I more to treasure my life and my mind..before I get crazy...

[RockRose]

It sounds like your daughter is 25+ years old now.  Whatever happened,  she won't admit it,  or in fact it didn't happen.  

It may have happened but she really wants to move on from that one event  

I think you should forget it,  and have a good relationship with your daughter.