dose anyone know what happend to Nauty>

[bobby139]

I havn't seen Nauty around latley, anyone no anything?
bobby

[Med Help]

Hi,

Just wanted to respond to the PM comments since this is often misunderstood. MedHelp obviously has the ability to read PM's, however we do not unless abuse is reported in regards to a PM. So, if someone spams you by PM, or threatens you by PM, etc. then we will review the PM in question and act accordingly. Otherwise, PM is not read.

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[LIZZIE LOU]

it takes "three" warnings here before you are booted.  i personally would have been on my best behaviour after the second one!!!!!  naughty was well aware of these rules.

believe it or not...this is NOT our forum...it belongs to medhelp...and medhelp makes the rules.  

[10356]

All I have to say is I have had nothing but good conversations with naughty and I would not change a thing about her. It takes all kinds to make the world go around and if you look for bad you will find them in anybody I'm sorry she is gone and I will miss her

[avisg]

good post

[toxictome]

Personalities go from one end of the continuum to the other and all points in between. We are all ADULTS here...so take what you need and leave the rest...it's that simple!!

:D :D :D D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

hugs....................to ALL, INCLUDING NAUTY!!

[bobby139]

Great post Jacqui! and No i didnt see were you implied at all that med help read pm's.
I think everyone for the most part do their best here, with so many diffrent personalities there is bound to be a few bumps here and there.

[Jacqui805]

I didn't mean that they do...hope I didn't imply that...just wanted to point out that we are unaware sometimes of harrassment, help, or otherwise that's transpiring through them (PMs), and it'd be wrong to blame MedHelp, or the people involved.  For example, I've seen people get upset that people on the forum are not being helped, in the past, but it's very often the case, that people are occupied with helping others through PM's and whatnot.  On the not so nice side of things, and by the way, I'm glad no one's freaking out about being able to talk about it here...it is perfectly ok, and normal (if one likes that word) to NOT like someone, and to even chat about that privately.  What is NOT ok, is to bad-mouth people, bear false-witness, or to purposefully try to stir up trouble and cause rifts between friends.  In the end, MedHelp cannot be everything, to everybody, all the time, and decisions will most likely be made that from time to time will not sit well with everyone.  I'm sure they're doing their best to keep all of our many personalities as happy as possible.  

[avisg]

med help does NOT read pms

[toxictome]

LOL

[bobby139]

PS..just like GoingToMakeIt said, Med Help reads PM's ...so there you go that is prolly what happend!! Like New said Med Help is on their game, it must of been something bad for them to do that.. so lets just leave it alone now.
bobby

[bobby139]

I agree with Jacqui...we dont know what happend and we dont know if it was 2 ppl or 100 ppl i keep reading that there were 2 ppl that had a problem. If it was over something that prolly wasnt even posted were others could read it then how do we know it was just 2 ppl's fault. I don't think we should put blame on anyone when we dont even know the story! I am sorry i started this post!
bobby

[Jacqui805]

Just a note here......  there are other issues to be banned for... and it needs to be kept in mind that we only see what people post directly on the forum, or in a note to someone.  We DO NOT see the PMs they send to people.  

[flmagi]

I think I know who is running the forum....Pres.Bush....everything makes sence now.

[mimi1313]

Her posts weren't mean. They could be harsh but I think that was her personality. And so many times she would give me a different perspective on things and I appreciated that.

We have to be able to have different opinions. Just because someone didn't like her doesn't mean she should not be allowed on because of 2 women. 2 Women out of hundreds!!! I see MedHelp is a dictatorship and not a democracy.

There are controversial people no matter where you go. Do we ban them all?

[GoingToMakeIt]

She is well. She is probably not wanting to come back, though.

[worried878]

I have had some times that she shocked me with her posts and such....but she always would "kind of" apologize and send me a pm afterwards...tough one as i know there are those who really had a hard time with her...If she said something profane or dangerous to someone...i guess i can see it...but i would not think that she would have done that...of course people send each other pms and that could be where it got dirty and was not something we could all see....hope she is well

[debsally]

I miss her too.  I love that she was straight up no BS.  I didn't always agree but thought it came from a good heart.  Would be nice to send her a pm

[mimi1313]

Yes, Avis please!!

[avisg]

I am not sure whether she can recive personal messages or not. Would you like me to find out ?

[avisg]

I would think that ,that would be between Med help and nauty.

[allaboutmary]

Anyone gonna offer up what she did ?  Or is it hush hush ?
Can she still recieve personal messages ?

[GoingToMakeIt]

I felt she had changed too. At least from what I saw.

[avisg]

yes nauty is gone

[newgirl2708]

seeeeee u cant have your own opinions....