I just want to thank you all for all you help and support. I am doing much better dealing with my son's addiction. which is his....I am a victim and know now instead of screaming,crying and threatening him. I need to tell him that I am here for him with he decided he is ready to clean up his act. until then, if he calls and is sober we will talk, if not I will tell him to call back when he is and hang up the phone. Two weeks ago I couldnt do that, now I think I am strong enough to. Because of youall and your support and help. Thank you doesnt seem like enough...But THANKS