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4 YEARS FOR VICKI595

Come one come all and lets give a shout out to the lovely Vicki for 4 years of sobriety!!!!  Her knowledge and passion to help others is so remarkable.  Over the past 3 years Vicki has been my rock, she saved my life, her take no nonsense approach is what took my stubborn a$$ to get clean.  "Mama bear", thank you for all that you did for me and for all,  your a kind soul and have a special place in my heart.  Congratulations on your 4 years!!!!!
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Thank You everyone. This is like reading an important chapter out of "This Is Your Sober Life"... You've all been part of my recovery and I've benefited greatly from knowing you. If I've helped you in your journey, please know you've helped me in mine.

When I came here in Nov.'09, I had no idea how huge this would be in my life but my addiction was huge(even though it took me 5 months to admit it) so I feel fortunate to have found myself here. I've made the best friends ever and feel blessed to have them in my life. Sobriety has changed me over time but I don't view addiction as such a horrible thing. It's just a fact of some people's lives and having been addicted I understand so much more about myself and the human condition.  I think it's made me kinder and more genuine in my relationships so I've come full circle from those bad, selfish, muddy days...

Thanks again for your lovely remarks and thank you to the ones who came before me: Domino, IBK, lesa, Laurel, addict3...You helped me in those early days and I know I wasn't easy...Big hugs to you and to Ric and ImDONE, Mary, Mark, Dana, Deb, and Connie...Kyle, Weaver and lulu and littlebit and Vic...Evan and Ben and ariley...I care so much about you guys...Amanda, Sarah, Real, spider, motye, nonights, jugs, readytolive and takingmylifeback and the rest of my Buds...please stay strong, stay in the moment, and eat ice cream every day!  Big love to you all!  xoxo
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1742220 tn?1331356727
hey Vickie happy four years THA BOMB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  ty for all your help over these past years, god knows ive needed it and you have been such a great source of support.  this is gonna be the year, Vickie, you said it and ima make it come true.  congratulations and TY, you rock!!!!
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Congratulations to you Vicki.
You have helped many over the years here.
I hope you had a good day!
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Congrats Vicki on your 4 years !! You have been a support for myself throughout our time here It feel wonderful to be able to cheer for your 4 years..  I'm so Happy for you !! warmly lesa
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1855076 tn?1337115303
Vicki, my friend,.congratulations!!!  You have been my guardian angel.  You have been there for me every step of the way.  I remember when I first found this forum.  I was so convinced I was an addict even though I never exhibited any behaviors of an addict.  I was so deternined to get off all my meds and I wound up sick and hospitalizsd.
  
Thanks for all you do for me and so many others.  I love you my friend.

Mary

Xox



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1416133 tn?1351123217
Vicki- you know how I feel about you, and how important our friendship is to me.  I too agree with the others - the no BS approach was exactly what this place needed (well, it's what I needed!) and for that, I will always be grateful.  You are a very special woman, never EVER forget that.  You have been a huge inspiration to me for a long time, and I don't know if I'll ever really be able to thank you for that, but I will continue to try!

I hope you are doing something pretty great this weekend.  :)
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1801781 tn?1461629469
You have been such a strength to this board.  I always read your posts as I was trying to weave my way through detox and sanity!  I am grateful to have had you pave the way for us.  Thanks for your humor and take no prisoners attitude here.  
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1235186 tn?1656987798
Congrats Vicki. I am very happy for you my friend.
So proud of you. You wear your sobriety well.
You are a shining star.
Thanks for all you do and all you are.
Much love
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Goodness me what a long time. Congratulations Vickie, this is wonderful to hear you have 4 years !!!
So proud of you : )
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7188197 tn?1399464311
Wow!!!! Is all I can say! Congrats on that awesome awesome accomplishment !!!!
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495284 tn?1333894042
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Ahhh Vicki...Seems like yesterday you came on the forum.  You didnt want to hear a thing we said as you were bound and determined to do it your way.  I remember sitting here and making comments out loud to myself cuz i sure as heck couldnt write them!!!  lol  You've come along way over the years and i am really very grateful you are part of my recovery.  We have had many talks, some very personal and painful and many laughs, all the while securing our place in you know where!!!

Congrats on those 4 yrs my friend~
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Hey Girl  look at you go 4 yrs is huge....im so happy for you you are and always have been a asset to our community you ''pay it forward'' you knowledge and skill are evident in your posts and your heart is full of compassion Thanks for all you do on the forum may God bless you abundantly your friend Mark  
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1827057 tn?1397520277
Thank you Vicki!!!!  Thank you for always supporting me and understanding me and treating me as if I were a sane Human being!  

You are awesome and I will always respect you and have your back friend!

You better be doing something really nice for yourself tonight and tomorrow and even the next day!  ;))))      Thank you for all of your unwavering support.
                                                                       R  
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Kyle, i echo what you said, man when i went back and read my posts, i was so pathetic, i was a bumbling fool and so sensitive i felt under attack..LOL  Vicki was such a hard a$$ to me, and hit a nerve many times, BUT, how i am so thankful she never gave up on me!!!!  

VIcki come out and play we want to celebrate!!!!!!
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1970885 tn?1435860428
This will be a very selfish post...You and a couple others were there for me over two years ago. You gave me support, but most importantly, you told me to stop feeling sorry for myself and get up and move. I've gone back and re-read my posts during detox hell and boy - was I a cry baby. Don't know how you put up with it, but glad you did.
Many congrats to someone who made an undefinable difference in my life. From everyone in my family - thank you.
K
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4522800 tn?1470325834
Wow Vicki, I too am SO darn proud of you.
I will NEVER forget how you helped me in one of my Bad times and I had no clue what was going on. I remember it well because we were PMing at night and then we got the Bombing news from Boston. From there on out I never miss a word you say on here in all the posting. lol
Bless and have a Great Day..Go out for a very nice Dinner with some Candles. Make this a Romantic night.
Vickie
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Your example has been one that helped change my life forever. Thanks for everything, I'll never forget you.
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3197167 tn?1348968606
Summer of 2012....I "bing'd" something with my muddled mind about recovery and hydros and ended up on MedHelp......had NO IDEA what I was doing.....but you and Kyle were the first 2 people to respond to me.
(well, on second thought, a gal from Australia and one from Spain were the first but it WAS the middle of the night for me and in their time zones it was daytime...LOL)
So YOU and Kyle were the first 2 Americans......hahahaha!

You two were joking back and forth about something you were each watching on SNL.....and just to show you how FOGGED my head was I actually asked you what "SNL" stood for????  You neither one laughed at me nor put me down....you just calmly typed, "Saturday Night Live"....
You didn't even add (Yeah STUPID!!!)  Hahahaha!

You've hung around to help the addict that still suffers, Vicki, and you're my go-to girl when Fioricet threads appear.  I appreciate all you invest in MH and for being such a shining presence in my early months around here.

Hope you are treated EXTRA special tonight....and that you can bathe in some sort of luxury that delights your heart.

Thank you for all you do and all you are.....sniff, sniff....do I smell some lobster M & C baking???????  Oh no....that's just wishful thinking.....LOL

Love abounds to you.....4 YEARS IS HUGELY WONDERFUL!!!!
Connie
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1981713 tn?1389860165
YAY Vicki!!!!!!  
Thank you for all you do for myself and others on the site!
You are truly an inspiration and should be damn proud of yourself!!!
xoxo
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4 years is TRUELY incredible!!! Congratulations!!!
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5986700 tn?1380791380
Vicki, how awesome! I hope one day to be able to boast 4years sober! Thank you for all you do. Hugs
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4113881 tn?1415850276
Congratulations Vicki! 4 years is a huge milestone and accomplishment. Thanks for all you do around here!
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1926359 tn?1331588139
Yay Vicki!  Words cannot express how grateful I am for you and all of your words and no BS advice over the years.  Wishing you all the very best of life my friend.  Go eat a big A*& chocolate sundae or something ok?  
Much much love
Lu
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1796826 tn?1578874779
Congratulations! 10,623 quality posts and still going strong! That's ~ 7.3 posts per day over a four year stretch. They aught to give you more than five stars once you get over 10K posts. Maybe six diamonds? What are your keys to staying clean long term (past the one-year mark)?
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