I bought the Zipperhead Chiari Pillow. It did take several weeks to come in though because they are all handmade. It was more expensive too. But it has shredded up foam so you can mold it how you want it. It also has a zipper so you can take out some foam to make it fuller or flatter. I love mine. You can even machine wash the whole thing. Google it and see if it is something you'd like. Keep in mind though that it is upward of $70
Rhea
mike this was my very next question and i will def look into this pillow
I did post a few links for pillows....and for ,me I had 2....a 9.99 refluffable pillow from Target and a homedics pillow that I could not do with out b4 and during my post op period....I still use it and love my pillow....use the search this community feature to find the older threads with the links.